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To Ferberize or not to?
So our son just turned 7 months a few days ago and me and the wife have decided that its time for him to sleep on his own. He's been sleeping with us for the last 7 months in our bed with a co-sleeper but we'd like to be able to sleep through the night and you know, actually get to sleep together so we are moving him to his spacious crib in his spacious room. So we thought about all the different methods and are going with the Ferber Method. Its named after some Doctor in Boston who after doing years of research and studies found that babies after 4/5 months who have trouble sleeping through the night can be taught to sleep by a system of soothing, quiet bed time and letting them cry it out. We are on night number 2 and let me tell you, hes got a set of lungs. He lasted 34 mins the first night and last night he lasted 49 mins cause I made the mistake of picking him up. We are going to stick to it for a few weeks to see how he responds but once he was able to fall asleep, he stayed asleep for most of the night. My question is this. How many have tried the cry it out method and when did you see a dramatic difference. Also, if you had a baby who wasnt able to sleep through the night and woke up every few hours, what other methods did you use? Who knew parenting was so complicated. I have more respect for my parents with each passing day.
Posted by th3midnighter on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:18 pm EDT | 11 Comments
Posted by Castlemonster on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:21 pm EDT
My daughter... months and months. Crying until she puked. Crying until she busted blood vessels in her eyes and face. Crying for 4-5 hours straight, until she couldn't talk or make a sound. Hell.
She now goes to sleep by playing Mommy duck with her hands. (Make a duck shape, have the two duck hands talk to each other). She did it herself. It works 100% of the time.
Posted by JeepChick77 on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:23 pm EDT
Only took one night and that was it. I have an awesome son from the get go.
Posted by twistedcaboose on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:24 pm EDT
Posted by corbin_dallas on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:24 pm EDT
Stick with it. You have got to get the kid out of your bed, or else prepare for years of getting kicked in the head while sleeping everynight.
Posted by KingDrewsky on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:27 pm EDT
Posted by th3midnighter on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:31 pm EDT
corbin was on the mark...As long as you know the different cry's then you are golden.
my twins were in their cribs from 8 weeks on, but we did the rock them to sleep for a while after that. Took them about 20 minutes to go to sleep then we put them down.
But now they just chill in our laps from 7:15 tll about 7:45ish, then we put them in the cribs, kiss them on the dome and leave the room. They fuss for about 5 to 10 minutes. Then they are out..
We can even ask them to turn off the light now, and one of them will walk over and turn off the lights...
Posted by lbsutke on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 12:38 pm EDT
Posted by Automan21k on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 1:19 pm EDT
Posted by Lusetti67 on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 2:09 pm EDT
Posted by VenomRudman on Tue Jul 22, 2008 @ 2:17 pm EDT
Try this. Get them in the crib when they're sleepy and read or sing to them. When they get fussy, reassure them without taking the out of the crib. Keep reading or singing until they go to sleep on their own. This is what we did for our oldest.
Good luck!
Posted by supergg2k on Tue Jul 29, 2008 @ 1:05 pm EDT
