Holy hell

http://www.cmt.com/shows/dyn/gone-country/series_about.jhtml

Ok this made me feel so much better. I don't mean to be so negative... wait yes I do,  So i've been in a "mood" lately and I was up and flicking through the channels and saw Bobby Brown in a cowboy hat and Marsha Brady aka who knows maureen something crying and looking like a train wreck SO of course i made it  louder and watched for a few minutes.

Well it looked like a reality T.V. cast off show.... you know the older ones no one wants to see... the bad one no one thinks he can even form a word never mind write a song. The list goes on. Oh than Carnie wilson... now listen look at her and know Gastric Bypass surgery wont keep you thin if YOU KEEP EATING lol

The premise of the show is to take this RAINBOW of "stars" as I use this word liberally, that come together to be the NEXT Country Star. llmfaoooo BOBBY fukn BROWN lmfao so seeing this made me chuckle and reminded  me things could be so much worse !!!!! OH i forgot the best Dee Synder lmfao... ROCK on... stay Hungry ~

same mistakes

You know that saying , fool me once shame on you , fool me twice shame on me "

What makes people think fool me 7 more times is ok ?? why do some people have no other way to deal with things but to lie. sometimes the lie its self is more hurtful than the actions.

I often sit back and listen to others and wonder what goes through people's mind. I'd love to know why people lie to those they love.

 if you have any input share!!!!!

avatar

Well cause Of JEEP lmao i made a girlie.. and shrunk it up and made me a avatar lol HOWEVER because im a computer IDIOT i have no clue how to show you all... now i know someone will explain this to me but it still wont help. LMAO so save your time . unless it involves less than 3 steps I am lost alreeady

so you just have to imagine my avatar BIGGER           She is called Ninja Nae  heheheh  but with a big gun

the joy in the everyday things

I love being able to relax and just play with my 3 year old. I used to have alot of guilt if I didn't run around plan something do something be supermom or be a working mom. I still get up and do all the things a domestic goddess should do. make beds, plan dinner, clean the house, put in the laundry in all that stuff but I love to throw on some sweats and just paint with her and read.  Let her "cook" for me and go shopping at the store, which is the pantry lol. I love it !!!!

I have come to conclusion that I would rather go with out  some new games.. or a dinner out.... or some new outfits for the ability to stay home.  I won't lie I do sometimes miss being with other adults and feeling a sense of worth. But than I look around and know I run a HELL of a house. my kids are good kind respectful lil boogers with wild imaginations which I adore. They are not bumps on a log that have been told not to express themselves, which btw here, where I live is the norm.

I enjoy the day to day routine with the ocassional Girl Scout meeting, the PTA get togethers, and the SCENTSY parties. I love being a mommy. !

Kids

So I was reading MJ blog over the weekend and it got me thinking. Why are kids these days have such a sense of entitlement. WELL i have a few opinions on this, NOW mind you this is my view of some things so dont go getting defensive or anything LOL.

Ok 1)  Why would you expect your kids to pick up if you the parent doesn't. case in point a friend of mine screams at her kid to clean her room. well alone thats a good thing but when the parent is sitting on her ass and the house looks like a tornado hit it I have a huge problem with that.. but I bite my tongue.

2)Yelling about responsibility to a teen. well I agree but when you live in a glass house dont throw BOULDERS... lol have you looked at your check list of things to do... have you looked at your finances?? lol are you any more responsible??

3) Respecting others... this one is golden... I love the parent that stands on the soap box and dictates the rules of respecting others but yet walk through a mall with that same mom and hear the vomit that falls out of the mouth about how people look and "wow did you hear what she did" lol

My kids are all these things respectfull kind responsible... ((at times))) because I try to set an example. NOW before the few of you laugh till you pee.... I am a ray of sunshine to just you guys lmfao you do not have to be perfect but don't expect your kids to be either... All i need from my kids is love and respect.. when they respect other... others things... and them selves Life is good !  OH and my kids fear me LOL that helps they know if i see a shirt on the floor for more than a day.. shirt is in the garbage... if you are texting while im giving a lecture.. it will go out the window... check 1-15 I bet there are a few there.. I stick to my threats.... thats rule one... Dont threaten to threaten MEAN it.... don't worry if you spent 50$ on something the lesson learned by said child whatching you throw something away IS PRICLESS!!! lmfao I love my girls they are fun and loving and sarcastic and sometimes horrid but they know when to stop!!!! I think thats my point.  kids will be kids but good parenting with a slight crazy stare from the parent should get em line!!!!! If you have nastey ass entitled little bratz think how what your doing isn't working and try something else...

I live in Utah... I live in a state where good parenting is defined by never cursing never raising your voice and NEVER raising a hand... and yet the kids here are scary... I live differently and think my kids are FABULOUS. lol. I am the few here that think a good yelling or a kick in the ass in a neccessary evil.... I am frowned upon when i tell my 3 year old we will leave the playground if she isnt nice.. I get told OH KIDS WILL BE KIDS.. ..and than i see that parent child screaming and throwing sand in some boys eye and laughing lol I stick by my parenting....